In Search of the New Compassionate Male

Join me s I go In Search of the New Compassionate Male 

I am convinced that amidst all the turmoil in the world a New Compassionate Male is emerging as the New Archetype. I am on a journey to every corner of the planet to give voice to compassionate thought leaders such as yourself.

I know there is a spark of compassion emerging within every man and within every woman. 

Regardless of gender, sexual orientation, nationality or religious tradition I am inviting all to join my conversation. Learn more below.


Upcoming Events

September 2021: Compassion Conference hosted by Compassionate-DFW

Panel: In Search of the New Compassionate Male Workshop – Where are all the compassionate men? What if more men could awaken the spark of compassion within themselves and in others? What would family relationships be like? How might it impact the community? Learn about the findings of a year-long study with both men and women on the topic of men and compassion, and learn about a proven and counterintuitive approach being used today to help more men ignite their spark of compassion. – Free Event: Registration

October 17th – 8th: Parliament of the World’s Religions

Panel: In Search of the New Compassionate Male

Panel: Solar Light Lunar Light: Transforming Gender Dynamic

The 1st Parliament of the World’s Religions, hosted in Chicago, brought together people of faith from around the world. Some like Anagārika Dharmapāla, A.G. Bonet-Maury, and Swami Vivekananda came to serve as representatives of their faiths, and many more attend what would become the birthplace of the modern interfaith movement. The 8th Parliament of the World’s Religions, hosted for the first time virtually, will bring together people of faith from around the world in an instant.

Join the Circle – Drop In Some Monday at 7:00pm-cst


Every Monday night for 9-years a growing and evolving circle of men gather is a safe and contemplative circle.

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Podcast – Articles – Videos

In Search of the New Compassionate Male:

Podcast | Articles | Videos

This podcast is about raising compassion consciousness in men. When COVID-19 hit qw knew it was to pivot from an in-person on the road strategy to a strategy built around a podcast. In April 2020, In Search of the New Compassionate Male launched.

The short story is that over the past 12-months we have published 93 interviews with men and women thought leaders from around the world like: U.S., Canada, Australia, Tasmania, Sardinia, U.K., Netherlands, Uganda, Sierra Leon, Guinea, Rwanda, Kenya, Uganda and Malawi.







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Men's Issues


Join the Conversation – Become a Guest on the Podcast

.Do you have something to share about men and compassion or compassion in general? Join the many voices, both women and men, thought leaders from around the world whose voices are being heard.

When COVID-19 hit the world the In Search of the New Compassionate Male Podcast launched and produced almost 100 episodes in twelve months. Men and women from all over the U.S., Canada, the Netherlands, England, Kenya, Rwanda, Guinea, Australia, Tasmania, Malawi, Sardinia, and more..

To apply, please send your Bio, photograph suitable for publishing, and a no more than 250 words related to your thoughts on men and compassion and the work you do in the world.

All applicants will be considered.



On Amazon

My personal story of how and why I created a Contemplative Men’s Circle: A guide for those who want to start their own circle~ This book has come out at the perfect time, like divine intervention has intended it.

~ It’s a great book about developing a contemplative men’s circle; it’s both a personal account and a guide for men to learn and embrace the integration of head and heart.

~ Through much personal pain, the Author has shared great success with all of his brothers to learn and share with them and others.

~ This is a great book to read and review whenever you need to find your…self.

~ I highly recommend this book to all those men (and women**) who may have become disconnected, as some have unconsciously not intended to do so. Read the eBook as well and reconnect with self.

~ Get the book that shares hundreds of hours of experience to creating a successful men’s circle from scratch.

**According to Clay, close to ~49% of women were recommending Circles of Men to their partner.

Personal Coach

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Your path is waiting
for you…
but you are not sure
where to start…
or which direction to go…
I believe in the human spirit.
I will share my tools
and walk beside you.
I will guide you as
you discover your path.

Clay Boykin, Personal & Organizational Coach
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