The Men’s Fellowship Network — now home to Clay Boykin’s
transformational coaching and The MandalaMethod™
Clay Boykin
Depth Guide • Thought Coach • Author • Creator of The MandalaMethod™
“Helping you uncover the inner patterns of wisdom that reveal clarity, purpose, and wholeness.”
Clay, In a Few Words
Clay Boykin is a Depth Guide and Thought Coach who helps individuals uncover the inner patterns of wisdom shaping their lives. As creator of the MandalaMethod™, Clay integrates symbolic insight, intuition, and structured clarity to support people in transition, purpose discovery, and personal transformation.
His work bridges Mythos and Logos—intuition and reason—to illuminate what is emerging within you and how it wants to take form.
This is not self-help
This is self-discovery brought into form.
The MandalaMethod™
A map for your inner life. A guide for your next chapter.
The MandalaMethod™ is Clay’s signature approach—a symbolic yet practical framework designed to help you along your path:
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Recognize recurring patterns in your thinking and behavior
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See the deeper story shaping your decisions
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Integrate intuition with clarity
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Discern purpose during times of transition
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Make decisions from wholeness rather than fear
Built on a Grand Cross structure (North = Mythos, South = Logos, East = Purpose, West = Meaning), the MandalaMethod™ reveals the underlying organization of your inner world—and the wisdom already present within it.
Clay guides you through this method during his 3-month intensive, offering insight, structure, and compassionate presence.
A structured, transformative coaching engagement for individuals navigating transition,
purpose, and inner change.
90-Day Journey
Transformational work for those standing at a threshold.
This is Clay’s signature, immersive offering:
A three-month, personalized journey designed to help you gain clarity, align with purpose, and navigate what is emerging in your life.
What’s Included
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12 personalized Thought Coaching + Depth Guidance conversations
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MandalaMethod™ mapping sessions (not “exercises”—guided revelation)
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Inner-pattern inquiry and symbolic interpretation
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Clay’s offline synthesis between sessions
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Access to Clay between meetings for brief integration calls/messages
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Custom diagrams, frameworks, or maps created specifically for you
The intensive is both structured and unfolding—shaped by your story and guided by Clay’s insight and methodology.
Investment
$6,000 for the complete 3-month experience
(A 180-day deepening track is available upon request.)
Who This Is For
The 3-month intensive is ideal for individuals who are:
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In a life, purpose, or professional transition
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Seeking deeper clarity about their next chapter
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Feeling called inward but unsure what the calling means
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Desiring a structure that integrates intuition and logic
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Navigating uncertainty or standing in a liminal space
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Wanting to understand the symbolic, archetypal patterns in their lives
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Leaders wanting deeper meaning beneath their external success
You don’t need to be lost.
You only need to be ready.
Clay’s Background
Clay’s path integrates a lifetime of leadership, spiritual inquiry, symbolic study, and men’s work.
He has served as:
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Depth Guide and Thought Coach
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Author of The Mandala Within and Circles of Men
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Marine Corps Officer
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Corporate Executive and Strategist
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Facilitator trained through Gender Equity & Reconciliation International
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Founder of the Men’s Fellowship Network
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Pilgrim to ancient sacred sites around the world
Across these experiences, a single thread emerged:
Clay helps people discover the wisdom that has always been within them.
Testimonials & Reflections
“Clay helped me map the connection between meaningful work and financial stability in a way I had never seen before. The MandalaMethod™ made everything click.”
— Jed Jones
“Clay listens with the presence of a sage and the clarity of a strategist. My life finally makes sense.”
— Private Client
“The MandalaMethod™ helped me uncover a pattern running through my life for 40 years. It changed everything.”
— Coaching Client
FAQ
Is this therapy?
No. Clay’s work complements therapy but is not clinical. It focuses on meaning, purpose, clarity, and symbolic insight.
Is Clay’s work only for men?
No. Clay works with individuals across all genders.
Do I need to know anything about mandalas?
Not at all. Clay guides the entire MandalaMethod™ process.
What makes Clay’s approach different?
He integrates depth psychology, symbolic analysis, mandala mapping, and leadership clarity in a way no traditional coach offers.
How much time does it take?
Approximately 4–5 hours per month, plus your own integration time.
The Legacy of Men’s Fellowship
Honoring where this site began.
MensFellowship.net began as a gathering place for men seeking authenticity, belonging, and meaning. Clay’s book Circles of Men emerged from this work and continues to support men’s circles around the world.
While Clay’s work has expanded into a universal methodology—the MandalaMethod™—his commitment to inner growth, compassion, and presence remains rooted in the values formed through men’s work.


